Should You Be Worried if You Find Your Partner’s Dildo

Finding a partner’s dildo may be unsettling especially if you’re not used to seeing sex toys. However, people use them for perfectly natural reasons. If it’s bothering you, here’s what you can do.
Think about what’s worrying you. Seeing a dildo may cause an automatic reaction in you, but remember: it’s not the item that evokes your feelings; it’s what you believe about it that does. Take some time in specifying what’s going on in your mind. If you want, write these down so you can tackle them one by one.
Are you worried that you’re not that good in bed? Guys sometimes do, because it’s common knowledge that women fake sexual satisfaction to please their man. It may feel uncomfortable at first, but it will do you good if you ask her about how sexually satisfied she is with you. Mention that you have seen the dildo and it’s giving you the impression that the sex is not that fulfilling for...